Christmas can be a very difficult time for those who have lost a loved one. Whether the death was recent or many years ago, the lead up through Christmas and the day itself, can be tough when many others will be celebrating. Local charity, Treetops Hospice, has shared advice and guidance on how you can cope at this time of year.
Treetops Therapeutic Services Senior Counsellor, Julie Wright, explained that letting people know how you are feeling and what you might need can make a big difference to how you cope: “Sometimes the first Christmas without your loved one can be the most difficult, or it still can be a struggle some years later. There’s no right way to grieve.
“This is a time to be really kind to yourself. Any feelings associated with your bereavement are a natural part of the grieving process and are individual to you.
Allow any emotions that come up to be expressed, rather than pushing them away.”
Other advice includes:
Acknowledge the day and its impact on you
Remembering the person who has died
Consider if there is anything you would like to do to remember your loved one this Christmas. Find ways to connect with their memory that feel meaningful to you.
“At Treetops, we understand that everyone grieves differently,” Julie continued.
“Everyone feels emotion and grief when they’ve experienced a bereavement and that’s normal. Treetops is here if you feel like you need a bit of extra help.”
Treetops, based in Risley, Derbyshire, supports people with life-limiting conditions, those who’ve been bereaved, and their families.
The charity offers one-to-one counselling for adults and children who are struggling after the death of a loved one. There is also a weekly drop-in support group called Tears to Laughter for adults who’ve been bereaved.
For further information about Treetops, visit www.treetops.org.uk or call 0115 949 1264.
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